All Updates
Sep 03, 2025
Address correction and livestream
I wrote the wrong address in my previous post about the address for...
Aug 27, 2025
Service details
Andrew's funeral will be tomorrow at 10:45am inside the chapel at t...
Aug 27, 2025
Remembering Andrew
After 15 months of bravery and determination, Andrew passed away to...
Aug 25, 2025
Discharged
Andrew was discharged yesterday afternoon. We are due back in clini...
Aug 24, 2025
Issues with platelets
We're still in the hospital. Since my last update, Andrew got a rep...
Aug 19, 2025
Thinking differently about treatment
Andrew continues to suffer from severe fatigue and sleeps for many ...
Aug 17, 2025
Inpatient day 2
Andrew has slept the majority of the day—low platelets (back down t...
Aug 16, 2025
Endocarditis
Last night I brought Andrew to the ER, and we were admitted to our ...
Aug 12, 2025
Bone marrow problems
Vivian and I left this morning for two nights at the beach. We’re t...
Aug 06, 2025
Delaying chemo
Today Andrew was set to resume chemo after a month-long break for r...
Jul 25, 2025
Friday night lights
We're at NYU tonight for Andrew's 5th radiation treatment. Last Fri...
Jul 17, 2025
Radiation on hold
Today was supposed to be the first of 10 days of radiation therapy ...
Jul 11, 2025
Back at home
Andrew’s kyphoplasty on Tuesday went very well. Immediately followi...
Jul 08, 2025
Treatment plan
Today has been a whirlwind with a lot of doctor’s visits, informati...
Jul 05, 2025
Update on seizures and back pain
Today Andrew is much more alert and acting himself. He's no longer ...
Jul 04, 2025
Seizures
We’re at NYU emergency department. Andrew has had two seizures, cau...
Jun 13, 2025
The Road Ahead (from Andrew)
Based on these quotes from my medical record and my conversations w...
Jun 12, 2025
Discharge today
Andrew's echo came back clean on Monday, which means he's on the sh...
Jun 09, 2025
To ICU and back
Friday evening, Andrew got the liver abscess (from the leaking gall...
Jun 06, 2025
Infection source
I know many of you are interested to hear updates as I have them, s...
Jun 06, 2025
What we know today
Things are changing quickly as results come in and doctors confer. ...
Jun 05, 2025
Admitted at NYU
This Monday was the one-year anniversary of Andrew being diagnosed ...
May 30, 2025
Bad news Fridays
Fridays haven't been kind to us this year—bad CT results, bad news ...
May 07, 2025
Chemo cycle 2
Shortly after my last update, Andrew got a CT. This was much earlie...
Apr 24, 2025
Trial #2
Yesterday was Day 16 of the KRAS trial at NYU. Prior to starting th...
Mar 29, 2025
What plan??
Over the past 10 months, we’ve learned that it’s pointless to ancho...
Mar 19, 2025
Choosing a trial
Andrew didn’t get chemo today. About 18 hours before the appointmen...
Mar 14, 2025
Next steps
It’s been a rough week, with a lot of developments—maybe an up or t...
Mar 10, 2025
CT results
Last Friday, Andrew got his first CT scan since he’s been on the st...
Feb 21, 2025
Trying to leave room for hope
This isn't the post I thought I would write today and definitely no...
Jan 15, 2025
The next chapter
We know we are long overdue for an update, and there is a lot of ne...
Dec 31, 2024
Histotripsy scheduled
Yesterday’s blog post didn’t trigger an email to those of you who a...
Dec 30, 2024
Holding pattern
We've had a nice couple weeks since Andrew's last chemo in mid Dece...
Dec 11, 2024
Good news from oncologist
I wanted to share a quick, positive update from Andrew’s oncologist...
Dec 10, 2024
Headed home soon
We are preparing for discharge from the hospital now. We ended up m...
Dec 10, 2024
Pancreatitis?
I am having a bad case of deja vu, writing this update from NYU’s E...
Dec 05, 2024
Update on Treatment: Progress, Plans, and Gratitude (from Andrew)
We know it’s well past time for another update, and I have some enc...
Nov 13, 2024
A Month of Ups and Downs (from Andrew)
Sorry for not updating the page in a while. Chemotherapy has been t...
Oct 09, 2024
2nd CT scan results
We are interrupting our 10-year anniversary trip at The Spa at Wood...
Sep 25, 2024
Everyone's Got An Opinion (from Andrew)
Yesterday, I met with my oncologists at Memorial Sloan Kettering. W...
Sep 18, 2024
The latest plan (from Andrew)
I’m glad to share that there’s more good news to report. My CA 19-9...
Sep 06, 2024
Good news (from Andrew)
Monday afternoon after Elyse’s last post, we got new blood test res...
Sep 03, 2024
What’s next?
It’s been a while since our last update. I’ve returned to work full...
Aug 14, 2024
Tumor board surprise
Last Saturday, Andrew got pelvic and chest CTs for the first time s...
Aug 09, 2024
Debility (Andrew's post)
Before June 2nd, my biggest health concern was a backache. But ever...
Aug 05, 2024
Round 4
It's chemo week #4. We had a long appointment with Andrew's oncolog...
Jul 22, 2024
Chemo round three
We're at NYU for chemo round three. Andrew had a nice few days lead...
Jul 10, 2024
Bonus days
Andrew’s experience with chemo round 2 was night and day compared t...
Jul 08, 2024
Chemo round two
We’re back at NYU for round two of chemo and a checkin with Andrew’...
Jun 28, 2024
Good day, interrupted
About 20 minutes into Andrew’s IV fluids and anti-nausea meds, Andr...
Jun 28, 2024
A learning experience
We’re having a good day. Andrew isn’t nauseated and has some energy...
Jun 25, 2024
$1,000
Andrew is struggling with side effects from Friday’s chemo. The fir...
Jun 23, 2024
C Day
This week has been long and hard. At times it felt like we were bac...
Jun 17, 2024
Hooked on Phonics (Andrew’s headline)
We ended Friday’s ER stay with confirmation via MRI that Andrew did...
Jun 14, 2024
Back in the ER
We’re back in the emergency department at NYU. Earlier this morning...
Jun 14, 2024
Home again
We came home from the hospital on Tuesday afternoon. As we anticipa...
Jun 11, 2024
Discharge day…probably
The last few days have been quiet. We thought Andrew may be dischar...
Jun 08, 2024
Delays
Starting with the good news: Andrew's cerebral angiogram was unrema...
Jun 07, 2024
What’s on Andrew’s heart?
We’ve had another eventful 24 hours. The velocity of information an...
Jun 06, 2024
Andrew's diagnosis
On June 2, Andrew was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreas cancer after ...
Jun 06, 2024
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