All Updates

Sep 03, 2025

Address correction and livestream

I wrote the wrong address in my previous post about the address for...
Aug 27, 2025

Service details

Andrew's funeral will be tomorrow at 10:45am inside the chapel at t...
Aug 27, 2025

Remembering Andrew

After 15 months of bravery and determination, Andrew passed away to...
Aug 25, 2025

Discharged

Andrew was discharged yesterday afternoon. We are due back in clini...
Aug 24, 2025

Issues with platelets

We're still in the hospital. Since my last update, Andrew got a rep...
Aug 19, 2025

Thinking differently about treatment

Andrew continues to suffer from severe fatigue and sleeps for many ...
Aug 17, 2025

Inpatient day 2

Andrew has slept the majority of the day—low platelets (back down t...
Aug 16, 2025

Endocarditis

Last night I brought Andrew to the ER, and we were admitted to our ...
Aug 12, 2025

Bone marrow problems

Vivian and I left this morning for two nights at the beach. We’re t...
Aug 06, 2025

Delaying chemo

Today Andrew was set to resume chemo after a month-long break for r...
Jul 25, 2025

Friday night lights

We're at NYU tonight for Andrew's 5th radiation treatment. Last Fri...
Jul 17, 2025

Radiation on hold

Today was supposed to be the first of 10 days of radiation therapy ...
Jul 11, 2025

Back at home

Andrew’s kyphoplasty on Tuesday went very well. Immediately followi...
Jul 08, 2025

Treatment plan

Today has been a whirlwind with a lot of doctor’s visits, informati...
Jul 05, 2025

Update on seizures and back pain

Today Andrew is much more alert and acting himself. He's no longer ...
Jul 04, 2025

Seizures

We’re at NYU emergency department. Andrew has had two seizures, cau...
Jun 13, 2025

The Road Ahead (from Andrew)

Based on these quotes from my medical record and my conversations w...
Jun 12, 2025

Discharge today

Andrew's echo came back clean on Monday, which means he's on the sh...
Jun 09, 2025

To ICU and back

Friday evening, Andrew got the liver abscess (from the leaking gall...
Jun 06, 2025

Infection source

I know many of you are interested to hear updates as I have them, s...
Jun 06, 2025

What we know today

Things are changing quickly as results come in and doctors confer. ...
Jun 05, 2025

Admitted at NYU

This Monday was the one-year anniversary of Andrew being diagnosed ...
May 30, 2025

Bad news Fridays

Fridays haven't been kind to us this year—bad CT results, bad news ...
May 07, 2025

Chemo cycle 2

Shortly after my last update, Andrew got a CT. This was much earlie...
Apr 24, 2025

Trial #2

Yesterday was Day 16 of the KRAS trial at NYU. Prior to starting th...
Mar 29, 2025

What plan??

Over the past 10 months, we’ve learned that it’s pointless to ancho...
Mar 19, 2025

Choosing a trial

Andrew didn’t get chemo today. About 18 hours before the appointmen...
Mar 14, 2025

Next steps

It’s been a rough week, with a lot of developments—maybe an up or t...
Mar 10, 2025

CT results

Last Friday, Andrew got his first CT scan since he’s been on the st...
Feb 21, 2025

Trying to leave room for hope

This isn't the post I thought I would write today and definitely no...
Jan 15, 2025

The next chapter

We know we are long overdue for an update, and there is a lot of ne...
Dec 31, 2024

Histotripsy scheduled

Yesterday’s blog post didn’t trigger an email to those of you who a...
Dec 30, 2024

Holding pattern

We've had a nice couple weeks since Andrew's last chemo in mid Dece...
Dec 11, 2024

Good news from oncologist

I wanted to share a quick, positive update from Andrew’s oncologist...
Dec 10, 2024

Headed home soon

We are preparing for discharge from the hospital now. We ended up m...
Dec 10, 2024

Pancreatitis?

I am having a bad case of deja vu, writing this update from NYU’s E...
Dec 05, 2024

Update on Treatment: Progress, Plans, and Gratitude (from Andrew)

We know it’s well past time for another update, and I have some enc...
Nov 13, 2024

A Month of Ups and Downs (from Andrew)

Sorry for not updating the page in a while. Chemotherapy has been t...
Oct 09, 2024

2nd CT scan results

We are interrupting our 10-year anniversary trip at The Spa at Wood...
Sep 25, 2024

Everyone's Got An Opinion (from Andrew)

Yesterday, I met with my oncologists at Memorial Sloan Kettering. W...
Sep 18, 2024

The latest plan (from Andrew)

I’m glad to share that there’s more good news to report. My CA 19-9...
Sep 06, 2024

Good news (from Andrew)

Monday afternoon after Elyse’s last post, we got new blood test res...
Sep 03, 2024

What’s next?

It’s been a while since our last update. I’ve returned to work full...
Aug 14, 2024

Tumor board surprise

Last Saturday, Andrew got pelvic and chest CTs for the first time s...
Aug 09, 2024

Debility (Andrew's post)

Before June 2nd, my biggest health concern was a backache. But ever...
Aug 05, 2024

Round 4

It's chemo week #4. We had a long appointment with Andrew's oncolog...
Jul 22, 2024

Chemo round three

We're at NYU for chemo round three. Andrew had a nice few days lead...
Jul 10, 2024

Bonus days

Andrew’s experience with chemo round 2 was night and day compared t...
Jul 08, 2024

Chemo round two

We’re back at NYU for round two of chemo and a checkin with Andrew’...
Jun 28, 2024

Good day, interrupted

About 20 minutes into Andrew’s IV fluids and anti-nausea meds, Andr...
Jun 28, 2024

A learning experience

We’re having a good day. Andrew isn’t nauseated and has some energy...
Jun 25, 2024

$1,000

Andrew is struggling with side effects from Friday’s chemo. The fir...
Jun 23, 2024

C Day

This week has been long and hard. At times it felt like we were bac...
Jun 17, 2024

Hooked on Phonics (Andrew’s headline)

We ended Friday’s ER stay with confirmation via MRI that Andrew did...
Jun 14, 2024

Back in the ER

We’re back in the emergency department at NYU. Earlier this morning...
Jun 14, 2024

Home again

We came home from the hospital on Tuesday afternoon. As we anticipa...
Jun 11, 2024

Discharge day…probably

The last few days have been quiet. We thought Andrew may be dischar...
Jun 08, 2024

Delays

Starting with the good news: Andrew's cerebral angiogram was unrema...
Jun 07, 2024

What’s on Andrew’s heart?

We’ve had another eventful 24 hours. The velocity of information an...
Jun 06, 2024

Andrew's diagnosis

On June 2, Andrew was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreas cancer after ...
Jun 06, 2024

In Support of The Steinhaus Family

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