In Support of Shannon Hoerle

Shannon Hoerle
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I want to share with you about Shannon Hoerle, who has recently left an abusive relationship. It's a tough time as the person she left took all the money from their bank account. Shannon now needs help getting back on her feet. It's urgent that we come together to support her during this challenging moment in her life.
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Hello my friends! This is the very definition of humbling yourself and asking for help because I have absolutely no other choice. A good friend suggested I do this under the circumstances so I decided to be vulnerable and go for it. I will be adding a description on the account next...but the long story short is this. 
I have been so blinded by my hurt & grief after my divorce, that I couldn't see what was right in front of me with my next relationship. He love-bombed me, blinded me and then it started a cycle of abuse. Physical yes but more mental & financial. God sure does work in mysterious ways! The past few days have been extremely HARD, but I found my strength and even knowing what he would do, I ended the relationship for good, and I am starting a whole new chapter. God revealed to me exactly who he is and I found out many disturbing things about what he has been doing behind my back...and to my face. 
However, when he left, he took every dime (and I mean every single penny) out of the account, all the tv remotes, every roll of toilet paper and my frozen food out of the freezer. This man truly is mentally unstable, and I was oblivious to all the HUGE red flags. He has had complete control over the finances and left without even paying the utilities---leaving me with no power or water starting tomorrow. 
The Positives of this: My house closes on September 15th and my financial issues will be resolved...and I will be able to pay everyone back what they have generously given me to help. Another huge positive that God saved me from---I didn't marry this man or spend the profits of my home on him or his family.
I also learned more about who I am and realized just how strong I can be---and what I absolutely won't tolerate in a relationship. I also learned that God still has my back---because if I wouldn't have looked through his phone and learn what I did----I would never have known until it was too late. 
If you are able and willing, I would sure appreciate your help right now. I do feel embarrassed but hey---none of us are perfect and I tend to have to learn life lessons the hard way LOL. Thank you so much to the people who have helped me already---and to all those willing to help me now. I will pay it forward. (The goal is to help me pay my utilities until the house closes, food and toilet paper LOL. I also though need help to get a storage unit and move all my things before the day of the closing. I won't receive my house profit until I already have to vacate the home for good. I feel like I can budget this amount of money and make it work!) 

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Elizabeth 4 months ago • with donation

I hope this can help. ❤️ u girl.
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