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Dear Friends and Family,
Maybe you know me as the person who organizes projects, solves problems, advocates for others, mentors, mentors, mentors, and always somehow finds a way to make things work. Asking for help has never come naturally to me.
But this is one of those times when I can’t solve the problem simply by working harder. I’m recovering from another (5th) major neurosurgery, followed by additional specialized treatments and a long recovery. Preparing for surgery while living with multiple complex chronic illnesses—and traveling across the country for highly specialized medical care—has stretched our family’s emotional, physical, and financial resources beyond what we can carry on our own.
But this is one of those times when I can’t solve the problem simply by working harder. I’m recovering from another (5th) major neurosurgery, followed by additional specialized treatments and a long recovery. Preparing for surgery while living with multiple complex chronic illnesses—and traveling across the country for highly specialized medical care—has stretched our family’s emotional, physical, and financial resources beyond what we can carry on our own.
For the past year and a half, I’ve been unable to work because of my health. We’ve been deeply grateful for long-term disability insurance, family support, and the kindness of so many people who have helped us along the way. But after eighteen months of trying to make a much smaller income cover ever-growing medical needs, we’ve reached the point where we simply can’t do it alone anymore.
Asking for help is an act of trust. I’m very anxious about this, but it is necessary. It If you’ve ever wondered how you could support us, this is that opportunity.
Why New York?
Many people have asked why I’m traveling all the way from California to New York for surgery.
The short answer is that this is a pretty unusual operation, which Is complicated by miuktiooe rare diseases . Also, it’s my fourth surgery with the same team and I trust them with my life.
I was born with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (hEDS), a genetic connective tissue disorder that affects every system in my body. Over the years, it has contributed to Chiari malformation, craniocervical instability, tethered cord syndrome, dysautonomia, mast cell activation syndrome, and many other complicated medical conditions. More recently, Long COVID added another layer of neurological, immune, and metabolic illness.
I’ve already undergone multiple neurosurgeries, including Chiari decompression, cervical fusion, and two previous tethered cord release surgeries. This summer I’ll be returning to New York for my third tethered cord release—the fourth surgery with the neurosurgical team that has cared for me through much of this journey.
Because this is a highly specialized revision surgery, I’m traveling back to the team that knows both my history and my anatomy best.
If you’re one of my wonderfully nerdy friends and would like to know more about the science behind all of this, I’m putting together a separate page that explains my diagnoses and why this surgery is so important. It’s in the update section .
Looking Ahead
If all goes according to plan, this surgery is only the beginning of this round of treatments, because we have new treatments to pursue.
Recovery will be followed by additional specialized treatments designed to address other aspects of my health, including metabolic and mitochondrial dysfunction.
This includes further travel for targeted immune therapy and infusions. Some of these are very spendy. I’ll also be continuing intensive work on nutrition, rehabilitation, and reducing factors like mold exposure and mast cell activation that may be contributing to my overall illness. I also need to get all new mobility equipment, etc.
This includes further travel for targeted immune therapy and infusions. Some of these are very spendy. I’ll also be continuing intensive work on nutrition, rehabilitation, and reducing factors like mold exposure and mast cell activation that may be contributing to my overall illness. I also need to get all new mobility equipment, etc.
I’m hopeful. None of these treatments are magic, but together they represent the best opportunity I’ve had in years to improve my quality of life.
How You Can Help
Your support will help with the many expenses that surround specialized medical care:
- Cross-country travel and lodging for surgery and treatment (like a hotel alone in NY—even a “cheap” one out in Rockville Center with a medical discount will still be thousands)
- Medical deductibles and copays
- Specialized medications and nutrition
- Household expenses while I’m unable to work
- Recovery needs for our family during this intense season
- Specialized braces, mobility aids, etc.
Also if you have Delta miles (especially$ or Hilton Points you don’t think you will use, please do let us know, those are VERY helpful…
If you’ve ever wondered how you could help us, this is that moment. If what you can do is not financial but is to share this or send us your hopes, chants, prayers, wishes, spells, good vibes, and cat photos, that is equally important.
With the deep and slightly overwhelming love you have all come to expect from me,
Larissa
With the deep and slightly overwhelming love you have all come to expect from me,
Larissa
Updates
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Aug 16, 2026
Various more issues but mostly fun last stretch
We’re getting there! I e had to do a bonus medical appt to assess c...
Aug 10, 2026
Good news and,,,, enh?
The good news is I saw Dr Xipoleas this morning and my incision is ...
Aug 08, 2026
Aaaand ground stop
Yeah, have to seee what my surgeon says Monday but I’m here till wh...
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