My name is Victoria Grace, and if you know me you know how much I love everyone, and love what I do. God, and my unceasing faith, have been the pillars of my adult life, and business, always.
I firmly do not believe in victim mentality, but I also believe in the truth and personal accountability. I also believe there is never shame in the truth, or asking for help.
And right now, I am putting my ego pride, fear, and toxic masculine in the grave, and doing just that. I’m asking for help.
3 weeks ago, something extremely traumatic and tormenting happened to me. I was a victim to people who I trusted, who my family trusted, and a huge piece of my innocence and free will was taken from me temporarily.
Although my faith is stronger than ever, I have been lying to myself that I don’t need physical and mental rest, time, and space for healing because I just wanted to be strong, and keep showing up for everyone else that I really do love so much.
But the root of the root is that I didn’t want to stop my usual schedule because it would mean I had to sit with the truth. It would mean accepting it, feeling my feelings, forgiving who violated me, and moving forward standing in, and speaking, the truth.
And that scared the shit out of me until yesterday.
But now I’m not scared. I’m ready to keep facing, forgiving, and alchemizing all the pain and evil done to me. I just need some help financially, and spiritually of course, during the in-between.
As a reader, medium, and intuitive teacher my entire job is to show up for who I’m helping. It is part of my purpose, and I am going to do it until the day I die because helping others see their light, deepening or renewing their faith, and living happier and more magical lives makes my soul happy. It makes me feel like me.
But during this healing, I am lying to myself and everyone else if I say I don’t need time and space to release the trauma, and rest in-between helping others.
This means doing less appointments, and the past 3 weeks I have been struggling to keep up with my already busy appointment schedule which, in addition to the PTSD, has caused me to have severe migraines, panic attacks, freeze response, and nausea many days. It has also made me realize if I’m not honest about this with myself, it’s going to cause me obstacles in the near future in so many ways including bills.
I am fully aware I am at just the beginning of this road, and I am actively seeking legal representation, and know that I have many steps I need to take ahead of me. This includes needing to pay for a lawyer.
I’m not writing this or doing this fundraiser with even the smallest intention of guilt tripping anyone. If you’re reading this, it is not your fault, or responsibility, for what happened to me and my body. I don’t want you to help me out of guilt. I don’t want you to give me a penny unless you want to. I don’t want a donation to feel like a burden to you. I don’t want to portray myself as a poor, powerless thing because I’m not.
I am a Child of God, and I have not lost my heart or soul. I never will. I just need help right now if you can, and want to.
To everyone who has reached out to me, who has told me they love me and shown it, who I know I can count on and rely on, I really don’t have the words to express how grateful I am, and how much I love you.
Only Love is real. God is Good. Life is Good. And Goodness will always prevail.
I love you, and thank you from the depths of my heart🤍
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