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On Sunday their son Brian, while at a family gathering for Father's Day, fell into the pool. With the help of police and medical professionals (including Aunt Toni) he was taken to St Clair hospital and then life flighted to Children's. Where they currently are. Their son has been declared brain dead, and as you can imagine it is absolutely devastating for their family. 
What was supposed to be a fun, family filled day turned absolutely horrific in a matter of minutes. Seconds even. 
Cody and Jess are very grateful to those of you who have reached out. And apologies if they haven't gotten back to you in a timely manner. 
Please pray for their son. For Cody and Jess, and for their other children, Marley Rae and Anthony. 
They have so many feelings. Anger. Confusion. Uncertainty. You never think it can happen to you. 
The priest has been by to baptize Brian. 
His parents should not be burying their 2-year-old baby, and his siblings should not grow up without their brother. Any donations, whether food or monetary, are greatly appreciated and extremely helpful in their time of need.
ANY FUNDS DONATED WILL BE DIRECTLY SENT TO JESS TO HELP COVER FUNERAL EXPENSES, HOSPITAL BILLS AND TO HELP THEM WHILE CODY IS OFF OF WORK.

Jessica Wilharm
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Organized by Ashley Ormond.

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Ross Nicotero 34 minutes ago • with donation

Prayers to you and your family

Lori Ann Rock about 2 hours ago • with donation

I am ever so sorry for the loss of your little boy. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.❤️🙏🏼

Mike and Renee Danto about 2 hours ago • with donation

May God wrap you in his loving arms and provide strength during this unimaginable time. Our deepest condolences and prayers.

Nancy & Mike Mason about 3 hours ago • with donation

May God bless Brian’s family

Anonymous about 5 hours ago • with donation

There are no words. ❤️‍🩹 Hugs, healing thoughts and prayers.

Bernie and Cathy Cusick about 6 hours ago • with donation

Prayers for strength and comfort 🙏
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