In Support of Abby, Thomas, and Annie

Abby, Thomas, and Annie

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Ryan’s death has shocked and saddened all who knew him. He was a brilliant lawyer, a loyal friend, and just one of those unique people who made an impression on everyone who met him.

Most of all, though, Ryan was a husband and a father. He loved Abby, Thomas, and Annie. Being Thomas and Annie’s dad was the most important thing in his life—something that was obvious in the good times and something he often said out loud in the difficult ones.

For those of us who loved him, one of the best things we can do now is help take care of the people he loved most.

We are raising money to help Abby with funeral and immediate expenses and to help support Thomas and Annie with whatever they may need in the days, months, and years ahead.

Thank you for any contribution you’re willing to make.

Abby Luhrs
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Organized by Ryan Koopmans and Meagan Luhrs.

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Aug 19, 2026

Obituary

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/west-des-moines-ia/ryan-...
Aug 16, 2026

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A visitation will be held on Friday, August 21 from 1:00-3:00 pm at...

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Anonymous 1 day ago • with donation

Surrounding you with love and support

Anonymous 1 day ago • with donation

So sorry for your family’s loss.

Anonymous 1 day ago • with donation

Much love to you and your beautiful kids, Abby. So very sorry. - Justine (Bangert) Mahoney

Friend from St.Tim’s 2 days ago • with donation

Praying that each of you, Abby, Thomas and Annie, feel comforted by the support of your friends and family. May you feel the loving arms of Jesus wrapped around you whenever you ask him for a hug. God bless.

Cheryl 2 days ago • with donation

Prayers for comfort and peace for Abby, her children, and all who grieve the loss of Ryan.

Rebecca Luhrs Baskerville 2 days ago • with donation

Abby, you have been in our family’s prayers this week, and we will continue praying for you, your kids, and everyone touched by this loss.
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