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Save the Date - Celebration of Life for Damon Givehand

In support of
The Givehand Family

Hello family & friends,
Thank you for continuing to engage & comment here on the update page. It warms my heart to see so many names I know and recognize and to see the names of those with whom Damon & I have not been in touch with in years. You all remind me of the beautiful life Damon and I had together over the last 40 years and all the many things we experienced as best friends, lovers, and soulmates. He liked to say..."What a time to be alive".

Please save the date for a Celebration of Life to honor how alive he was and all that he did to live the life he lived. Damon was a humble soul who strived to live a simple and uncomplicated life. He believed in rituals & routines; easy gatherings, creating tiny moments of sacredness in the midst of the mundane; and he believed that laughter, sunshine, and music were all medicine for the soul. So, in honoring that, we are going to have a humble, simple, laughter & music filled ceremony to honor who he was.

DATE: Saturday September 12, 2026
TIME: 2 to 3:30PM Central
LOCATION: Pensacola, Florida -- RSVP will be required due to size restrictions & the location details will be provided.
ATTIRE: Damon HATED dressing up for funerals or any occasion for that matter, AND he LOVED any event that allowed him to be comfortable, put on his best "sneakers" and favorite t-shirt. His favorite color was green because it represents the heart chakra (our ability and capacity to give & receive love). So, to honor who he was we invite you to wear your favorite green attire. Feel free to dress it up, dress it down or to simply wear green sneakers if you've got them. Any shade of green is fine. No pressure.

I'll be wearing a green shirt of some sort, jeans, and green sneakers. Just so you know it really is okay to come as you are.

We know that not everyone can travel to attend, so we are working on a way to POSSIBLY livestream a portion of the celebration. Stay tuned for details.

In lieu of sending flowers, we will have a way for you to donate to a scholarship fund for a variety of educational opportunities that Damon cared deeply about. Stay tuned.

Thank you for your continued support, love, and attention to this journey.

Deep gratitude,
Kiala

Kiala Givehand
about 2 months ago

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Rachel Barclay about 2 months ago

💚💚💚 you’re on my mind throughout the day

Jennifer Hall about 2 months ago

Stay strong and find solace in the fact that you found a soulmate who left a lasting impact on the lives of many.

Jennifer Hurd about 2 months ago

Kiala, I can't come, but I do hope you can livestream it so I can watch. I am continually thinking of you and praying for you. Jennifer Hurd

Cindy.gilstrap about 2 months ago

Constantly in my thoughts and prayers! 💚💚💚

Gentlejanice about 2 months ago

As a recent widow, I am for you and sending huge amounts of love and warm hugs. 💖🙏💖🙏

Andrea Thueler about 2 months ago

💚🍀🫑🪀🛶🧩🥒🌳🐉🌱🦚🦎💚 I will be there in spirit and wear green with deep love and gratitude 🫶🏼 and if you can livestream it I will be grateful to join. May infinite blessings be with you!

Sharyn Adams about 2 months ago

Thinking of you 💚

Cindy Montgomery about 2 months ago

Damon was such a beautiful person. I am sad that I will not be seeing him at Sacred Makers. It seems unfair that such a wonderful soul was taken when that is exactly what is needed in our world today. I love the way that you are honoring him. I am certain that he is smiling down from the heavens. Love you always.

Mikki Soliday about 2 months ago

Without knowing it, you have touched my heart many times, Kiala. Now my heart is broken for your broken heart. May the love, support, friendship, light, creativity and prayers of the beautiful art community offer healing and strength. 💚

Jasmine Watts about 2 months ago

💚💚

Bethmarcil about 2 months ago

What a beautiful way to honor Damon and the life you shared. I love the thought of everyone gathering in green, with music and laughter, and simply coming as they are. It sounds like such a fitting reflection of the way he chose to live his life. Holding you close in my heart, Kiala, as you move through these days and all that they hold. Sending you so much love. 💚

Fallon Jaye about 2 months ago

I'll be there <3 It would be an honor to attend. <3

Sunflower19873 about 2 months ago

Dear Kiala, I wish I could be with you on this very important day! Please know that I am with you because I am holding you close in my thoughts and heart.

Liz about 2 months ago

Hi Kiala, thank you for the update - it's appreciated. Each time you post, we learn more about Damon and his beautiful spirit. Sending lots of love from across the seas. Liz x💚💚💚

Shadonna Minter about 2 months ago

Damon was a great person on and off the court. My deepest condolences to you Kiala.

Joanne King about 2 months ago

So many beautiful words have been given, surrounding you with love and shared experience. Sending love everyday.

Suzanne Asbury about 2 months ago

Thank you, this made me smile and tear up at the same time. I will wear green on this day to honor Damon even though I will only be able to attend in spirit. Sending so much love.💚💚💚

Rachel Torda about 2 months ago

Sending you big long hugs. It's going to be a beautiful day, and I'm sure glimmers from Damon are going to be sparking all around. We'll be with you in spirit and wearing green from head to toe. Holding you so close to my heart.💚💚💚

Angel Dees about 2 months ago

Praying you and your family 🙏💚💚💚

Jamie Sawyer about 2 months ago

💚 I’ve been thinking of you, sending you and your entire family so much love & support.

Rodney Puryear about 2 months ago

Prayers for Givehand family.

Rishajohn about 2 months ago

Hi my love. Rick plans to come to represent the Johnson family. Niles and I will be there in spirit. You and Damon will always be my favorite couple.💚💚💚

Bonnie Natko about 2 months ago

There in spirit, and will absolutely be wearing green to honor Damon's beautiful heart and soul. Sending all of the love and the light your way.

Beth Blakesley about 2 months ago

Thinking of you often, Kiala, and continuing to send love and peace. I will wear green for Damon on the 12th and be with you in spirit.

Amysue Chase about 1 month ago

Oh Kiala, I am so sorry for the loss of your life partner and friend, Damon. I emailed you recently not knowing. I’ve only known you both for a few years, but both of your lights and compassion were evident from when we first met. The last time I spoke with Damon (at Sacred Makers) was in 2024, he wanted to share his perspective and beliefs about our care of our bodies. Several months later when I was dx with breast cancer, I was overwhelmed and remembered him saying something about how we hold so much power and grace within our selves and I realized I could move forward at a pace that honored who I was. He was a truly intuitive and kind man. I wish you grace as you navigate this new world you’re in.

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