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The No Spin Zone

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I'm far too exhausted to say much this evening. Though there's a lot to say. Mostly, we just need prayers after two discouraging days.

The good: It's 9:30 pm on Saturday, and we're enjoying a delicious meal delivered by Spoonful of Comfort, courtesy of some friends. Our lawn was mowed by a team from church (though we got home and it was too dark for us to see how it looked). The Braves won β€” it was a game Paula and I had tickets for, but instead I watched from the hospital room. And Emma drove back to us from Chattanooga today and picked a peck of apples from the orchard! THANK YOU ALL.

The best: Paula had some really lucid moments where Marshall, Kitty, Halle, and I each got to spend some "just like old times" time together.

The however: Paula needed three CT scans today to explore a few episodes of fading lucidity. She'd engage with us, then be too sleepy to talk, and lose focus. It was unnerving. We finally left the hospital to take care of ourselves. Each day we think we'll spend 6 or 8 hours there, but end up there for 10 or 14.

Our nurse today took the time to explain the healing process to us, including why "2 to 3 weeks" is the recovery marker from an aneurysm. Why couldn't this have been in a packet the family is handed when their loved one checks in: "So Your Mom Had a Brain Aneurysm: What to Expect When You're Stressing?"

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Lbethay 4 days ago

Continued prayers for healing and peace.

Dawn Berlo 4 days ago

Hugs and love!!!

Terrilyn Bayne 4 days ago

Praying daily for Paula πŸ«‚πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’“

Alex Whitaker 4 days ago

Praying for you Paula! Hang in there!

Shann Doig 4 days ago

I’m so sorry this journey isn’t always one step forward. I think when our loved ones are recovering, understanding with patience is one of the most difficult things! We just want them better now!!!! And then the second most difficult thing is taking care of ourselves!!! Glad you went home. Praying you can continue to do so!!! Continued prayers in all the areas. As I’m reading back over this I’m like, yep, I’m sure John can just resend this message to me down the line!!!! Easy to suggest, hard to follow!!! We love you both!

John VandenOever 4 days ago

Thank you for the prayersβ€”Paula called me from the ICU at close to midnight Saturday and she sounded like herself again! The doctors scanned her a 4th time, put in new IVs, and are changing up a few things like β€œmore hydration, more salt, higher BP…” Flushing out her EVD (external ventricle drain) probably made a significant improvement.

Joe Pisani 4 days ago

Lifting you up in prayer! Thank you for sharing these updates. May the Lord give you peace and the doctors wisdom as you walk this Valley. Psalm 23- God is with you even in the valley. Love you guys- The Pisani’s

Misti Wills 4 days ago

Praying John. God is your strength and refuge. A very present help in times of trouble. Believing in the one who can do more than we can ask or imagine.

Ginger Weaver 3 days ago

PrayingπŸ™πŸ™

Cheryl Benz 3 days ago

Praying for encouraging progress and more rest for the family on this long journey. May Paula and her whole team of family and friends be refreshed by the presence of the Lord. He is the only one strong enough to handle this!

Lana Geren 3 days ago

Many prayers for Paula and for you all. Thank you for sharing updates.

Angel Fielder 3 days ago

Prayers continue for each of you. So sorry for what feels like a set back. I know it’s a messy, stressful, non-linear process. Praying for full and complete healing.

Patty Keimel 3 days ago

My continued prayers are with you Paula and your family. May our good Lord sustain you, heal you and hold you during this difficult journey. Sending love to you all.