Support Registry Update

Beautiful Surprises

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When friends say that they're praying for you constantly and that you're continually on their minds, it hits different. Particularly when you feel unable to pray very well yourself. There's so little stillness. What did I ever do with all the idle hours of life? We're so thankful to know you're praying--it's tangible; we feel carried. The peace we have is supernatural. The things I worried about before Paula's aneurysm have largely faded away.

We are also affected tremendously by the young professionals who've reached out and given sacrificially--wonderful humans we knew as children. That has a way of really knocking you off your feet... Thank you for reaching out and leaving a note. It is so, so kind.

Then there are our own children--Madison, Marshall, Halle, Emma, and Cooper--who've been revealed as these highly functioning, compassionate, exceptional beings who handle everything from mind-numbing tasks to difficult conversations. They are friends, co-sufferers, and wonderful conversationalists. It's a close race to pick a favorite (wink). 

Paula is improving, slowly. She ate better yesterday. And she is a remarkably gracious patient — kind, focused on her nurses, and making wonderful connections with each one. She's a wonder, and she amazes me. 

Thank you for everything! This is all so new to us. And we're so grateful to all of you.

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Donna Dehner 10 days ago

John and Paula, we love you! I love comment “that you feel covered”, God is so good at giving us peace and assurance during the most difficult times of our lives. We are all with you and for you

Sara Rosenberger 10 days ago

Praying for you as you walk this journey. We trust fully that the Lord will use this time of suffering for His glory and your good.

Shann Doig 10 days ago

Hey, the Mikky D’s may have jump started something! In all seriousness, it’s during these times that the body of Christ is such a gift. Not just “a church building body”, but the entire body-in different churches, different towns, different states. Carried. We get you, there! Never have we felt more carried than in this difficult season. So thankful you feel it too-the awesomeness of our God, the moments that can only be explained by Him. We love you both!

Andy Halvorsen 10 days ago

The Great Physician has got you. Paula is in our prayers, and I am so thankful to hear the body of Christ is so holding you so tightly.

Sarah Teff 10 days ago

Continuing to pray for you all! ♥️

Dolores George 10 days ago

John, You and Paula will always be special to us. I'm so happy to hear she is improving. John and I are praying for you both daily. Love you all so much. Dolores & John

Sheila Tranum 10 days ago

We love you both! Thank you so much for the update! We are covering you and your beautiful family in constant prayer...Paula is a fighter!!

Angela King 9 days ago

We love you all! You have such amazing children because they have amazing parents! It's pretty neat to watch our children handle things in a way that just blows our minds because they are so awesome. I experienced that with our children and all that we have gone through with JP. Prayers continue to head in your direction!

Terrilyn Bayne 9 days ago

While praying at bed tonight, Kate whispered before I had me ruined Paula yet, "your brain surgery friend" ... So we prayed! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 We love you 💕

Erin Curran 9 days ago

Continuing to pray!

Sestr5543 7 days ago

Exactly the way God designed a family ! Beautiful words and Im still praying for all of you ! Love you and miss you guys !