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A Little Health Update, A Lot of Gratitude & One Very Special Cane ❤️

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Well, friends…an update from our little corner of the chaos. 😂❤️

First, the most important part: my health continues to be stable, with no new growth. And let me tell you, those are words we NEVER take for granted. We are incredibly thankful for every bit of good news we get.

My medical team here in Phoenix is also working with me to make sure I am established with an equally amazing team in Lubbock. Leaving behind the doctors who have walked this road with me is definitely emotional, but knowing they are helping make sure I am in good hands when we get there brings me a tremendous amount of comfort.

And speaking of this whole “new normal” thing…

Please meet Myrtle. 😂❤️

Myrtle is my newest friend, my trusty sidekick, and apparently the latest member of the family. She's also a cane.

Because I am considered a fall risk, Myrtle and I have become pretty close. I never thought I'd reach an age where I'd be introducing people to my cane by name, but apparently cancer has decided that accessories are now part of my personality. 😂

The good news is that it does appear the radiation treatment I had back in April has helped some with my balance and mobility.

THANK. GOODNESS.

I will gladly take every little victory I can get—even if that victory comes with a rubber tip and a name tag. 😂

I also want to be honest about another part of this journey. I can tell that my brain just doesn't function the way it did “BC”—Before Cancer. There are things that used to come easily to me that now take more effort, and there are days when my brain apparently decides it would like to take a personal day without consulting me first. 😂

As frustrating as that can be, I'm learning to listen to my body and accept that I can't always operate at the pace I did before cancer.

Because of this, I am applying for disability. My hope is that I will be approved for enough support that I can potentially work part-time. I still want to work. I still want to contribute. I still want to use the skills and experience I've spent years building. I just need to do it in a way that works with my new reality instead of constantly fighting against it.

And then there is YOU.

I honestly don't know how to adequately put into words what our family feels when we look at this fundraiser.

Our goal was met in LESS THAN 24 HOURS.

I mean…WHAT?! 😭❤️

This goal was set because we needed help getting our family from Phoenix to Lubbock. We never imagined the response would be what it has been. And somehow, the generosity just keeps coming.

But here's the part that has really gotten us…

It's not just the money. It's the messages. The prayers. The shares. The people checking in.

The people we've never met who have decided that our family matters to them.

And then there was the woman who messaged me on Facebook—a complete stranger—and offered to drive me and the pups to Lubbock simply because she wanted to help.

A STRANGER.

I don't even know what to say about that except…

THIS. IS. COMMUNITY. ❤️

In a world that can sometimes feel incredibly heavy, divided, and downright exhausting, someone looked at our story and thought, “I don't know these people, but I can help.”

And she did.

That is humanity.

That is kindness.

That is the kind of thing that restores a little faith in people. I'm pretty sure a lot of us could use a reminder that there is still goodness out there.

Well, friends…here it is.

I’ve been given an incredible reminder that we are not walking this road alone.

So, from our slightly chaotic, occasionally sarcastic, always-loving family to EVERY single person who has donated, shared, prayed, messaged, offered help, or simply thought of us:

Thank you.

Thank you for helping us move forward. Thank you for helping me get home.

Thank you for reminding me that even in the hardest chapters, there can still be laughter, kindness, unexpected friendships—and apparently a cane named Myrtle. 😂❤️

We are heading home to Lubbock with boxes, dogs, Myrtle, a whole lot of uncertainty, an enormous amount of hope, and more love surrounding us than we could have ever imagined.

And honestly?

We couldn't ask for a better village.

Thank you for being ours. 🩷

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Angie Burns 4 days ago

It did my heart all kinds of good to read this update! Surrounding you guys with my love and laughter while you plan your Lubbock move… straight as the crow flies.

Amanda Gray about 21 hours ago

Angie A! My love for you is deep and unwavering. We've seen a lot together over the years...how about we start that back up!? Thank you for ALWAYS cheering us on!

Erin Henderson 3 days ago

I was thrilled to see that you met your goal so quickly!! And the offer from the stranger to drive you!! You’re right, that is a much needed reminder of goodness in humanity! We will continue to keep you all in our prayers in this stage of your journey! Love to you all!

Amanda Gray about 21 hours ago

Erin, thank you for your gift to us and for you kind and encouraging words. We will take every prayer you have! Please let us know when you're state side and maybe we can get together! Please give James and the kiddos (no longer kiddos) my love.

Wilsonfam2005 3 days ago

You are getting back just a small portion of the love you all put out in the world- and you deserve every ounce of it!

Amanda Gray about 21 hours ago

Lady, you've seen the struggle from the beginning. Thank you for being instrumental in Jax's growth and development into the young man he is today! You're an amazing mother, teacher and mentor!

Kayla Selmon 2 days ago

I just wanted you to know that you all have been in my prayers! I’ve been waiting until pay day (teacher struggles! 🤪), but I’d still like to make a contribution! I lost my mama to cancer, and seeing you fighting like the champion you are is so inspiring! Sending you all the love and prayers I can! 🫶🏽🙏🏽 God is so good!

Amanda Gray about 21 hours ago

Kayla...you will always be OUR Miss Selmon! We feel so lucky to have been able to keep in touch with you through all these years. Jax couldn't have had a better kinder teacher! Thank you for your gift to our family! I can't wait to see you!