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Heaven is Calling

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The Gonzales Family
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I have tried writing this in so many different ways, but no words are right for this moment. 

We are preparing for Paloma to go to Heaven. 

The beginning of this week feels a lifetime away already. We thought we were bringing Paloma into the hospital to be treated for something treatable. However, this morning we received news that at this point, it is not treatable. Her heart is failing, and the rest of her body is starting to follow. The doctors have told us she has a few days to a week, at most. They have always been pretty straightforward, letting us know if we were doing things for her or to her at any point. And right now, everything was leaning towards doing things to her. 

She was discharged today and comfort care is our priority for her. 

We wanted her to be home with us, with her siblings, with her family so we can laugh, cry, and love on her for as long as she continues to be on this side of Heaven. 

Right now, she is in and out of sleep, she is vocalizing, and using her talker whenever she feels like it. She called for me and Alan, a little bit ago using her talker, and we're gonna miss that voice so freaking much.

Our home health nurses are amazing and we feel lucky to have them with us so we can sleep (as much as we can). And hospice is supporting us in every capacity we need, too. We can call them any time and they'll come to us 24/7. 

We feel covered with love both near and far, most especially now in these hardest of days. Thank you for continuing to walk our littlest journey with us and Paloma. 

Lisa Gonzales
4 months ago

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Angela.f.cameron

Praying for your family's peace, strength and comfort
  • 4 months ago

Gracee Baria

Praying for you all Lisa, Alan, Gonzales kiddos and especially Pal. Heart is heavy hearing this news, but how beautiful is the love you all pour on Pal and the love Pal has for you all. Holding you guys in prayer during these precious moments this side of Heaven. Love to you all!
  • 4 months ago

Susan-Jayne Anderson

No….. I’m so sorry …. In tears here…. I love you so so so much, Pal. Kisses on your cheeks and love from Helios….. May Heaven be glorious for you…
  • 4 months ago

Kay Dinglasan

Praying for your sweet family. May God bring you all peace and comfort.
  • 4 months ago

Michelle Tamoria

Praying for all of you. I’m glad you get to spend this time with her.
  • 4 months ago

Kari Janisse

Awww Lisa. Your words are so beautiful. Right down to the subject line. Thank you for continuing to share your family’s journey with us all. Count on my continued prayers during this tender time. Sending love to you and to sweet Paloma! 🙏🏻🧡
  • 4 months ago

Emily Dent

Lisa and Alan,
I am so sorry for you and your family. Paloma is the one and only PKS sister that James has gotten to meet. Praying for you and your family through this hard time !
  • 4 months ago

MG Pingoy

Lisa I’m so very sorry 😢. Pal, we love you. God loves you. Storming the heavens and are praying for you all during this time.
  • 4 months ago

Rachael Miller

I feel so lucky to have met Paloma. I remember running after you at Halloween to give her a toy! Sending love.
  • 4 months ago

Patris Posadas

sweetest pally. my deepest love and comfort goes to you and the entire Gonzales family. I love you. wishing you peace and joy in these moments you’ll have together.
  • 4 months ago

Jennifer Rodriguez

My sweet Pally! It’s been an honor of a lifetime 🫶♥️ Love you so much! May God comfort you and your beautiful family always and may you always remember how much you are loved.
  • 4 months ago

Sarika.kumra

Prayering for your family. I can’t even imagine the feelings you all must be going through right now. Lots of love, blessings and strength to you all.. much love to Paloma ❤️❤️
  • 4 months ago

Gabagat Family

Alan and Lisa... Pls know that my family is holding you close in prayer as you prepare for Palomas journey home. Sending you love and the tightest hugs from across the miles.
  • 4 months ago

Gabagat Family

Alan and Lisa... Pls know that my family is holding you close in prayer as you prepare for Palomas journey home. Sending you love and the tightest hugs from across the miles.
  • 4 months ago

Michelle Llaban

We are praying for your family. May God embrace Paloma. Amen
  • 4 months ago

Berthie Araneta

Praying for your family during this most challenging time, God bless you all.
  • 4 months ago

Sylvia Pituch

Lisa, Thank you for taking time to update - have been praying all day and now through the night. Dear Mary, mother of Jesus, you certainly know this watching and waiting. Wrap Alan, Lisa, and their children in your mantle. Let them feel your presence of comfort. Jesus, Your sweet Paloma - she has been through so much - her body is tired, but this is so hard,.,,we pray for this journey to be as peaceful as it can be. Jesus we trust in You.
  • 4 months ago

C Park

Dear Paloma and Mom,
I’ve been following your journey and want to thank you for sharing your lives so openly. Paloma, your light has touched so many hearts, including mine. Mom, your love and strength have been a gift to witness. I’m holding you both close in my thoughts as you prepare for Paloma’s journey to heaven.
  • 4 months ago

Amanda Cruise

I was thinking you’d be posting something like this soon. My heart is hurting so much for Paloma and your family. Record for voice on the talker. Soak in every moment. I prayed last night that each of you would feel the presence of God’s arms holding you. Paloma already knows the way home to Heaven, she came from there to be your angel on Earth. I also told Quinn to hold her hand on the way back so she could show her the ropes as a big girl healed with a body that supported her bright spirit that she’s had all along.
I pray for Paloma’s ease and comfort and your family’s as well. I love you.
  • 4 months ago

Blappano

Oh Lisa, I’m so heartbroken reading this. I wish there were any words that could bring comfort but I know there aren’t. Praying for you all and holding you close, now and in the coming weeks and months. Pally is so loved. ❤️
  • 4 months ago

L.castraujo

Our prayers for Pal, you and the family. May these last few days/week be filled with peace, joy and love. God bless you all.
  • 4 months ago

Catherine.glynn07

We love you guys so much sending prayers and comfort for you all and Paloma !
  • 4 months ago

Timirose.bustamante

Lisa, Alan, & Family, We pray that these next few days and onward are covered in love and warmth. Paloma is so so loved. God bless you & your beautiful family. 🤍🫂
  • 4 months ago

Carol Greer

Our family has been keeping yours in our prayers. Courage and love to all of you, and especially to sweet Paloma and her momma.
  • 4 months ago

Mayela Cubillo

Aww Lisa, this is really sad to hear. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all with peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing Paloma’s story with us. I will continue to keep you in my prayers!
  • 4 months ago

Jjones1207

Lifting you all up in prayer as Paloma gets ready to be held by Jesus.
  • 4 months ago

Janet Aguet

This absolutely broke my heart. I’m praying for you and your family. Paloma will be your forever angel. Definitely praying for peace and strength during this tough time.
  • 4 months ago

Tinacarr4416

Praying for you all 🙏🏼
  • 4 months ago

Sarah Penuela

I am soo sorry to hear about Paloma, I pray you all have the special moments with her in the coming days to build more cherished moments in your hearts of how wonderful a gift she is and vice versa how wonderful you all are to her. Praying for the outpouring of love and peace during this difficult time. We love you all! 🙏
  • 4 months ago

Cortney Spriggs

Awww. 😢 We are praying for all of you. May God continue to give you the strength you need throughout this time. Thank you for including us in Paloma’s journey. Hugs and kisses from Maryland 😘😘
  • 4 months ago

Mary Carroll

I am praying for sweet comfort and care for your dear awesome Paloma..i.m so sorry to read this news but I realize her care, comfort, and love at home is paramount... she has the love of you as a family, her awesome nurses, and the specialists have all been in her corner.. continued prayers for togetherness, strength and comfort
  • 4 months ago

Elaine STEELE

I have been praying and will continue to pray. Thank you for sharing Pally with us; she is such a hoot! Her first meeting with Jesus will be just beautiful. 🙏🏽
  • 4 months ago

Gretchen Peters

Lisa, Alan, and gang... we are so so sorry to hear this and our sending you all our love and prayers that our mother Mary will cover you in her mantle of peace and comfort.
  • 4 months ago

Maytmadarang

Praying for Paloma and you all as her incredible and loving pamilya! Really don't know what to say, because of how difficult this is. Throughout this experience you and your family have been such a solid unit of utmost love and that is so beautiful to observe.

Will continue to pray for you all!
  • 4 months ago

debbie grimes

Sending love & prayers..
  • 4 months ago

Domonique Stephens

this has truly broke my heart and got me in tears. i am praying for your family .
  • 4 months ago

Carolyn Benigno

Paloma’s love is infinite, even though the physical manifestation of love in the form of Paloma will be heading back to Heaven.
The most heartbreaking update so tight hugs to your whole amazing family. ❤️
  • 4 months ago

Liz1017diaz

Sending prayers to this sweet girl & family during this time.
  • 4 months ago

Christine Garcia

Sending Pal and your entire family our prayers during this difficult time. God’s peace be with all of you.
  • 4 months ago

Gemini Singh

Dear Alan, Lisa, & Family - our hearts break for you on hearing this news. We have been following Paloma’s incredible story from afar and will continue to keep you all lifted in prayer especially during these hardest of days. May God’s peace and boundless love envelop you all 🙏💟
  • 4 months ago

Jvladringan

Our continued prayers for Paloma and the entire family. May God shower you with His love and comfort.
  • 4 months ago

Donna Sarsosa

Praying for your whole family 🙏🙏 Paloma is surrounded with so much love near and far. God Bless
  • 4 months ago

Eliese Callahan

Praying for Pally and your family ❤️
  • 4 months ago

Antoinette Giuliano

Lisa and Alan so sorry to hear this news. Many prayers for you and your family. You are such a loving family!
  • 4 months ago

Kelly Carlin

Sending prayers your way, Gonzales family.
  • 4 months ago

Daisy Rosales

I’m so sorry for your loss, words cannot be said to make this difficult time easier … but trust the Lord’s Will and know she’s with Him now … joyful, happy and healthy… no more suffering for her … EVER!! when Jesus comes back for us and we all join Him … we will all run to her and our loved ones to hug and love and be together… forever!
May the strength and courage of Jesus Christ brings you peace and comfort in this painful time. 🙏🏽🤍🕊️
  • 3 months ago

Lisa Gonzales

Hi Lisa. I have been hearing a lot about what you and the family have been going through, through my daughter Tawana, Isaiah and my granddaughter’s. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and the family! Claudia
  • 3 months ago
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