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Heaven is Calling

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I have tried writing this in so many different ways, but no words are right for this moment. 

We are preparing for Paloma to go to Heaven. 

The beginning of this week feels a lifetime away already. We thought we were bringing Paloma into the hospital to be treated for something treatable. However, this morning we received news that at this point, it is not treatable. Her heart is failing, and the rest of her body is starting to follow. The doctors have told us she has a few days to a week, at most. They have always been pretty straightforward, letting us know if we were doing things for her or to her at any point. And right now, everything was leaning towards doing things to her. 

She was discharged today and comfort care is our priority for her. 

We wanted her to be home with us, with her siblings, with her family so we can laugh, cry, and love on her for as long as she continues to be on this side of Heaven. 

Right now, she is in and out of sleep, she is vocalizing, and using her talker whenever she feels like it. She called for me and Alan, a little bit ago using her talker, and we're gonna miss that voice so freaking much.

Our home health nurses are amazing and we feel lucky to have them with us so we can sleep (as much as we can). And hospice is supporting us in every capacity we need, too. We can call them any time and they'll come to us 24/7. 

We feel covered with love both near and far, most especially now in these hardest of days. Thank you for continuing to walk our littlest journey with us and Paloma. 

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Angela.f.cameron 12 months ago

Praying for your family's peace, strength and comfort

Gracee Baria 12 months ago

Praying for you all Lisa, Alan, Gonzales kiddos and especially Pal. Heart is heavy hearing this news, but how beautiful is the love you all pour on Pal and the love Pal has for you all. Holding you guys in prayer during these precious moments this side of Heaven. Love to you all!

Susan-Jayne Anderson 12 months ago

No….. I’m so sorry …. In tears here…. I love you so so so much, Pal. Kisses on your cheeks and love from Helios….. May Heaven be glorious for you…

Kay Dinglasan 12 months ago

Praying for your sweet family. May God bring you all peace and comfort.

Michelle Tamoria 12 months ago

Praying for all of you. I’m glad you get to spend this time with her.

Kari Janisse 12 months ago

Awww Lisa. Your words are so beautiful. Right down to the subject line. Thank you for continuing to share your family’s journey with us all. Count on my continued prayers during this tender time. Sending love to you and to sweet Paloma! 🙏🏻🧡

Emily Dent 12 months ago

Lisa and Alan, I am so sorry for you and your family. Paloma is the one and only PKS sister that James has gotten to meet. Praying for you and your family through this hard time !

MG Pingoy 12 months ago

Lisa I’m so very sorry 😢. Pal, we love you. God loves you. Storming the heavens and are praying for you all during this time.

Rachael Miller 12 months ago

I feel so lucky to have met Paloma. I remember running after you at Halloween to give her a toy! Sending love.

Patris Posadas 12 months ago

sweetest pally. my deepest love and comfort goes to you and the entire Gonzales family. I love you. wishing you peace and joy in these moments you’ll have together.

Jennifer Rodriguez 12 months ago

My sweet Pally! It’s been an honor of a lifetime 🫶♥️ Love you so much! May God comfort you and your beautiful family always and may you always remember how much you are loved.

Sarika.kumra 12 months ago

Prayering for your family. I can’t even imagine the feelings you all must be going through right now. Lots of love, blessings and strength to you all.. much love to Paloma ❤️❤️

Gabagat Family 12 months ago

Alan and Lisa... Pls know that my family is holding you close in prayer as you prepare for Palomas journey home. Sending you love and the tightest hugs from across the miles.

Gabagat Family 12 months ago

Alan and Lisa... Pls know that my family is holding you close in prayer as you prepare for Palomas journey home. Sending you love and the tightest hugs from across the miles.

Michelle Llaban 12 months ago

We are praying for your family. May God embrace Paloma. Amen

Berthie Araneta 12 months ago

Praying for your family during this most challenging time, God bless you all.

Sylvia Pituch 12 months ago

Lisa, Thank you for taking time to update - have been praying all day and now through the night. Dear Mary, mother of Jesus, you certainly know this watching and waiting. Wrap Alan, Lisa, and their children in your mantle. Let them feel your presence of comfort. Jesus, Your sweet Paloma - she has been through so much - her body is tired, but this is so hard,.,,we pray for this journey to be as peaceful as it can be. Jesus we trust in You.

C Park 12 months ago

Dear Paloma and Mom, I’ve been following your journey and want to thank you for sharing your lives so openly. Paloma, your light has touched so many hearts, including mine. Mom, your love and strength have been a gift to witness. I’m holding you both close in my thoughts as you prepare for Paloma’s journey to heaven.

Amanda Cruise 12 months ago

I was thinking you’d be posting something like this soon. My heart is hurting so much for Paloma and your family. Record for voice on the talker. Soak in every moment. I prayed last night that each of you would feel the presence of God’s arms holding you. Paloma already knows the way home to Heaven, she came from there to be your angel on Earth. I also told Quinn to hold her hand on the way back so she could show her the ropes as a big girl healed with a body that supported her bright spirit that she’s had all along. I pray for Paloma’s ease and comfort and your family’s as well. I love you.

Blappano 12 months ago

Oh Lisa, I’m so heartbroken reading this. I wish there were any words that could bring comfort but I know there aren’t. Praying for you all and holding you close, now and in the coming weeks and months. Pally is so loved. ❤️

L.castraujo 12 months ago

Our prayers for Pal, you and the family. May these last few days/week be filled with peace, joy and love. God bless you all.

Catherine.glynn07 12 months ago

We love you guys so much sending prayers and comfort for you all and Paloma !

Timirose.bustamante 12 months ago

Lisa, Alan, & Family, We pray that these next few days and onward are covered in love and warmth. Paloma is so so loved. God bless you & your beautiful family. 🤍🫂

Carol Greer 12 months ago

Our family has been keeping yours in our prayers. Courage and love to all of you, and especially to sweet Paloma and her momma.

Mayela Cubillo 12 months ago

Aww Lisa, this is really sad to hear. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all with peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing Paloma’s story with us. I will continue to keep you in my prayers!

Jjones1207 12 months ago

Lifting you all up in prayer as Paloma gets ready to be held by Jesus.

Janet Aguet 12 months ago

This absolutely broke my heart. I’m praying for you and your family. Paloma will be your forever angel. Definitely praying for peace and strength during this tough time.

Tinacarr4416 12 months ago

Praying for you all 🙏🏼

Sarah Penuela 12 months ago

I am soo sorry to hear about Paloma, I pray you all have the special moments with her in the coming days to build more cherished moments in your hearts of how wonderful a gift she is and vice versa how wonderful you all are to her. Praying for the outpouring of love and peace during this difficult time. We love you all! 🙏

Cortney Spriggs 12 months ago

Awww. 😢 We are praying for all of you. May God continue to give you the strength you need throughout this time. Thank you for including us in Paloma’s journey. Hugs and kisses from Maryland 😘😘

Mary Carroll 12 months ago

I am praying for sweet comfort and care for your dear awesome Paloma..i.m so sorry to read this news but I realize her care, comfort, and love at home is paramount... she has the love of you as a family, her awesome nurses, and the specialists have all been in her corner.. continued prayers for togetherness, strength and comfort

Elaine STEELE 12 months ago

I have been praying and will continue to pray. Thank you for sharing Pally with us; she is such a hoot! Her first meeting with Jesus will be just beautiful. 🙏🏽

Gretchen Peters 12 months ago

Lisa, Alan, and gang... we are so so sorry to hear this and our sending you all our love and prayers that our mother Mary will cover you in her mantle of peace and comfort.

Maytmadarang 12 months ago

Praying for Paloma and you all as her incredible and loving pamilya! Really don't know what to say, because of how difficult this is. Throughout this experience you and your family have been such a solid unit of utmost love and that is so beautiful to observe. Will continue to pray for you all!

debbie grimes 12 months ago

Sending love & prayers..

Domonique Stephens 12 months ago

this has truly broke my heart and got me in tears. i am praying for your family .

Carolyn Benigno 12 months ago

Paloma’s love is infinite, even though the physical manifestation of love in the form of Paloma will be heading back to Heaven. The most heartbreaking update so tight hugs to your whole amazing family. ❤️

Liz1017diaz 12 months ago

Sending prayers to this sweet girl & family during this time.

Christine Garcia 12 months ago

Sending Pal and your entire family our prayers during this difficult time. God’s peace be with all of you.

Gemini Singh 12 months ago

Dear Alan, Lisa, & Family - our hearts break for you on hearing this news. We have been following Paloma’s incredible story from afar and will continue to keep you all lifted in prayer especially during these hardest of days. May God’s peace and boundless love envelop you all 🙏💟

Jvladringan 12 months ago

Our continued prayers for Paloma and the entire family. May God shower you with His love and comfort.

Donna Sarsosa 12 months ago

Praying for your whole family 🙏🙏 Paloma is surrounded with so much love near and far. God Bless

Eliese Callahan 12 months ago

Praying for Pally and your family ❤️

Antoinette Giuliano 12 months ago

Lisa and Alan so sorry to hear this news. Many prayers for you and your family. You are such a loving family!

Kelly Carlin 12 months ago

Sending prayers your way, Gonzales family.

Daisy Rosales 11 months ago

I’m so sorry for your loss, words cannot be said to make this difficult time easier … but trust the Lord’s Will and know she’s with Him now … joyful, happy and healthy… no more suffering for her … EVER!! when Jesus comes back for us and we all join Him … we will all run to her and our loved ones to hug and love and be together… forever! May the strength and courage of Jesus Christ brings you peace and comfort in this painful time. 🙏🏽🤍🕊️

Lisa Gonzales 11 months ago

Hi Lisa. I have been hearing a lot about what you and the family have been going through, through my daughter Tawana, Isaiah and my granddaughter’s. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and the family! Claudia