Day two started exactly how many parents kids (especially medically complex kids) will recognize, with very little sleep and a lot of recalculating. After a rough night for Mateo (and therefore… everyone), we connected with our realtor early to regroup and rethink the day. 

 

Two properties that were originally on the list were officially crossed off before we even left. After deeper conversations and reviewing details, it became clear they just weren’t going to work for us, for accessibility reasons, layout limitations, and overall feasibility. We also had an appointment to see a home in a brand-new neighborhood, but there was very little flexibility when it came to modifying their floor plans. Since accessibility isn’t optional for our family, we made the call not to move forward with that option either. Honestly, given how the night went, we were grateful to slow the morning down and squeeze in a few extra minutes of rest. 

 

Once plans were reset, we headed out: 

 

Over 2 acres and relatively flat (a big plus). The area felt somewhat industrial, similar to the outskirts of Mount Dora, with a mix of older homes and some newer builds. One interesting note: there are several Johns Hopkins outpatient offices nearby, which we want to research further. The land is in a residential zone with nearby homes, meaning closer access to city hookups. It’s also not far from major highways, but we still need to check proximity to shopping and day-to-day essentials. 

 

Quick and easy decision: no. The plot sat on the corner of major roads and was squeezed between homes that were extremely close together. Not the environment we’re looking for long-term. 

 

Stop #3 – House 

This one had a lot going for it, beautiful natural light, a wraparound porch, and an absolutely stunning plot of land. But accessibility-wise, it just wasn’t there. Only one bedroom on the main floor, very small bathrooms (like, very small), a small garage, and an already maxed-out breaker panel. The home felt like a flip, done well, but the layout posed challenges. The stairs to the bedrooms were right at the entrance, the driveway split into three confusing directions, and we’d be responsible for plowing all of that land ourselves. Lots to love, but not the right fit. 

 

Stop #4 – Land 

Another no. The location was tucked between homes, and the area just didn’t feel like a place we could truly see ourselves settling into. 

 

Even though this trip didn’t end with the house or the land, it gave us something just as important: clarity. Being here in person made it very real how much it takes to find a home that is accessible, one we can realistically make accessible, or one we can build to be accessible. Homes like that simply aren’t common, which means we have to stay open-minded about creative options without blowing our budget. 

 

We were also able to drive through Johns Hopkins Hospital and see the Kennedy Krieger Institute in person, which was incredibly meaningful and grounding. And just as importantly, we got to experience neighborhoods we had been considering and determine for ourselves whether we truly liked them or not. 

 

Our search now continues from Florida with the help of our amazing realtor and close friends who will act as our boots on the ground. If something looks promising and truly workable for Mateo, either Brian or I will travel back up to see it in person. 

 

This trip taught us a lot and somehow made us even more excited for what’s ahead. Thank you for walking this journey with us, believing in our vision, and helping us move closer to a future where Mateo has the access and opportunities he deserves. 💙