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November Update

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Kis-Young Family
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Yikes, it’s November! I meant to provide another update in October but the time slipped away. There have been many moving things since my last post. And so much information to consume, not only about Christopher’s health but also the logistics surrounding his current and future care. To summarize the most important parts, he has emerged from his minimally conscious state and is conscious—has wakefulness and awareness. They determined this through serial neurobehavioral tests called CRS-R (coma recovery scale, revised), and it detects minor changes related to consciousness in groups of people that have suffered from a brain injury. While at TIRR, they diagnosed him with a more specific disorder that addresses his cognitive and motor deficits due to ADEM. They call this, cognitive-motor dissociation (CMD). In this disorder, there are often misdiagnosis of the person being in a vegetative state because of the presence of wakefulness but the inability to showcase awareness due to the motor deficits present. CMD is distinguished from locked-in syndrome (LIS) because a person with LIS has full motor paralysis. In Christopher’s case, the CMD manifests as fully consciousness but his inability to motor plan and execute movements are not always present, amplitude of movements not large enough, or noticeable to an untrained eye. The picture is complex but the end result is that he will need a significant amount of help for an indefinite (and possibly permanent) amount of time.

I personally have struggled with this and remain to have questions. How do they determine if his decision-making capacity is intact? Will there be a way for him to be in charge of the care he needs and direct it at his will? If decision-making remains off the table, how do we ensure that his wants, wishes, and desires are upheld above all else?

The medical team at TIRR Memorial Hermann are hopeful that he will be discharged on 11/11. What this entails continues to be a work in progress. I’ll write out the big list of items that  are constantly running through my mind and if there are things I missed, overlooked, or you personally can help with, please do not hesitate to reach out and let us know. We are open to all the useful help we can get from this community.

The never-ending to-do list: 
  1. Establishing care-giving schedule for Christopher when he is home, 24/7 care
    • follow up with and obtain firm commitments
    • create schedule 
    • referrals for caregivers that are capable and affordable (not covered or paid through via insurance)
  2. Follow up with social security disability certification and medicaid
  3. Remodel home to include roll-in shower?
  4. Purchase wheelchair accessible car?
  5. Complete King County Access application form - needs to be timed with when he is home, requires in-person assessment at Harborview Medical Center
  6. Sell Tahoe and purchase car that is more affordable? 
  7. Follow up with his multiple physicians: PCP? Neurology, PM&R, 
  8. Planning for when I am away at school - care for the kids, care of Christopher, care for Xora
    • Stability important - rainier scholars for Lennox, sports for both the kids, representation and support for school activities and functions, walks for Xora
    • Consistency in care-giving for Christopher
    • Need to find a place to live myself in San Antonio 😵‍💫
  9. Establishing consistency in medical needs for Christopher - tube feeds, medications, medical supplies, personal care supplies, etc,
  10. Immediate house needs:
    • Repair drywall in Christopher’s new room — **thank you to Marcus and Jennifer Hoffer for offering to possibly help with this!
    • Paint patched drywall and above baseboards — **thank you to Marcus and Jennifer Hoffer for offering to possibly help with this!
    • Wheelchair accessible ramps - **thank you to Kimm and Austin for helping with this!
    • New front door lock
    • Electrical work for outdoor lighting
  11. Follow up with hospital bed and lift delivery to home from National Seating and Mobility (NSM)
  12. ……….many more, 

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