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The End of The Longest Day

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Hello Family & Friends,
THANK YOU for all of the love, light, positive energy, prayers, poems, stories, shares, and donations. I am humbled and grateful in the highest sense of the words. It's been a long and emotionally exhausting day here at Team Givehand so please forgive the brevity, but I need to sleep while Damon sleeps so that I am ready for what tomorrow brings. 

Damon had one surgery with three different procedures today that included him getting: 
  • a tracheotomy
  • a feeding tube
  • a medi-port

The tracheotomy will help him have an open airway as they address the tumor in his neck over the next few months.

The feeding tube will help him eat and get the nutrients his body needs in order to get strong enough to endure whichever course of treatment he decides to pursue.

The medi-port will allow doctors and phlebotomists to administer certain medications and or draw blood without having to poke him in the arms, hands, and fingers over and over again.

At this time, Damon is sleeping somewhat peacefully as a result of the sedation from the surgery. He is recovering in the ICU as there was a MINOR complication at the end of his surgery that required the Ear, Nose, & Throat doctor to return to the surgery and address. They assured me that it was handled and that Damon will be sore but moving towards healing all the same.

He's going to require lots of therapies in the coming months (physical, occupational, and speech) to help him begin to rebuild and strengthen all the things. His faith is steadfast, his spirit is strong, and his mind is aware. And with those three (and a community like this one) we believe all things are possible.

A huge THANK YOU to Tiffany & Kristal for sitting with me during the entire surgery and most of the recovery and transfer to ICU, even though I said I didn't need anyone to come. Turns out, I DID NEED YOU, so thank you both. I am forever grateful.

And to Pops (Donald G.) for showing up and supporting in the ways that only a Father/Father-in-Law can --thank you - 143.

To my PPP and LifeAlchemy community -- especially Lily, Jamie,  Rachel T., the Temple Keepers (Aly, Suzanne, Kelli, and Ebonee) & Katerina; and to LeAnne T. & Becky H. of SoulCollage®; thank you for your understanding and grace.

To Mary Beth Shaw and the Stencil Girl family -- thank you. And to my blood relatives in the family group chat -- THANK YOU for the prayers, songs, hearts, blessings, constant reminders of support, and love. 

And if I didn't name you today in this update, please know I see you and I thank you and I'm super tired in this moment. 

Lastly, the days ahead hold more than we can begin to fathom and yet somehow the way our family, friends, and community have rallied around us makes me feel like we have a fighting chance. 

Thank you, thank you, thank you... 
Kiala

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Michelle Schratz about 17 hours ago

Thinking of you both so much today. I’ve been holding you close in my heart and in my prayers throughout the past hours. I’m so relieved to hear the surgery is over, and I hope each new hour brings a little more strength, healing, and hope. May Damon recover well, and may you both feel surrounded by love, peace, and comfort. Sending you the biggest hug from across the ocean. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Jamie Sawyer about 12 hours ago

You and Damon have been in my mind all week and as you know we’ve been holding space for you when you feel depleted. Thank you for the update, we will continue to pray and see Damon in his best health to share collective space in community with us again, happy healthy healed and whole. So much love to ya’ll 🙏🏻💖

Gail Sawyer about 11 hours ago

I’m holding you both in your Highest and Best for the most Benevolent outcome or better, for Damon and all concerned. I send Reiki Hugs. 🙏🏻🫶🏼

Andrea Thueler about 8 hours ago

Dearest Kiala - many thanks for the updates ! Sending love to both of you and prayers and healing energies and the clear vision of Damon to be recovered, healthy, fully back to life. May the loving eternal light carry you in these tough times. My heart is with you 💜

Suzanne Asbury about 5 hours ago

Kiala, Thank you for keeping us updated. I am sending so much love to you both and all those that are supporting you. You are in my thought always. I will keep lighting the candles and praying for Damon's return to health. Thank you for all that you do!

Rachel Torda about 4 hours ago

Kiala, we're just lifting both you and Damon up with healing energy right now. Thank you so much for the update - I'm so glad he's come through his surgeries. I'm praying that it brings in some long stretches of deep rest and recovery. Visualizing you both wrapped in love and healing light. And sending big hugs too.💕

Stacey Bobbitt about 2 hours ago

You're in my prayers on a 24 Hour Loop. You have everything you need and you clearly know it., but also know there is always so much more love and energy spiraling around you and Damon , named and UN named, just there for the asking. I know you know, but prayers and visualization are requests that the universe hears and responds to. So much love and strength to all of you.🙏🏼