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Almost home (!) and a new medically complex normal

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This update is overdue (apologies!) and written in haste as we’ve been treading water the last few weeks just trying to keep our heads up. We have much to give thanks to God for and to ask for your continued prayer. We’ve been living at Texas Children’s for 220 days to date, and Simeon has spent all of his 190 days of life in the NICU.
 
Lungs: At the end of May the doctors weaned Simeon from a high-flow CPAP to a low-flow nasal cannula. With a little ongoing boost of oxygen, Simeon can now maintain safe saturations with more basic support. Simeon will likely need to remain on 24/7 oxygen support for another year.
 
Eating: After moving to a low-flow cannula, we had the green light to trial seeing how Simeon could eat by mouth. Sadly, we haven’t been able to make progress on that front. Simeon can barely swallow a few dribbles of milk without hacking coughing to prevent inhaling it. Why? Well, for the past 6 months, Simeon has been fed entirely via a removal tube placed in his nose/mouth that pumps milk into his tummy. This means he has never had the opportunity to learn to swallow milk himself. Who knew that breathing, sucking, and swallowing milk is a major life skill that has to be learned as a tiny baby. And this skill, when delayed to be learned as a bigger baby, can take much longer to develop, from months to sometimes years. So, we opted to a g-tube for Simeon. This is a semi-permanent g-tube surgically placed into his stomach via a port in his abdomen. This allows him to come home much sooner so that he can safely get all his calories to grow while we work with therapists at home so that he learns to eat by mouth. I was told to prepare for about a year of needing the g-tube.
 
Heart: We just learned that Simeon’s open heart surgery will likely happen 2-3 months from now. This will be for the repair of the big hole in his heart. So we’re not out of the woods yet in terms of significant hospital interventions, but we’re making lots of progress.
 
So … drum roll please … barring developing any new infections or viruses that would prolong his hospital stay … the doctors are planning to DISCHARGE Simeon NEXT WEEK!!! The plan is to go home on 24/7 oxygen and a g-tube and come back for the big heart surgery in a couple months.
 
Honestly, we’ve barely had time to process. We’ve been jolted into a new gear to coordinate with a score of care teams so that we can care for Simeon on 24/7 oxygen and a g-tube at home. As many of you know, our 2 year old has a different rare lung disease that requires home oxygen primarily for sleeping, but this is unrelated to Simeon’s lung disease (instead caused by prematurity) and we’ve only seldom been on 24/7 oxygen at home. Full-time home oxygen is a major step up in what is requires of us as parents for ongoing care, as well as pumping milk into a tummy via a g-tube.

Please pray with us:
  • Praise God that Simeon has made so much progress and can hopefully come home next week!
  • Please pray Simeon comes home next week. Specifically, please pray that no one in the family, especially Simeon, catches a virus so that he comes home.
  • Please pray for a smooth transition of Simeon’s ongoing complex medical care from the hospital to our home.
  • Please pray for new provisions as we work out a new medically complex normal with twin babies in our home. Any mom will say that it’s hard enough caring for an overly active 4 year old and 2 year old with one baby, let alone doing all that with a second baby who is medically complex. I’m frankly not sure how Ben and I are going to sleep at night or even leave the house as a family at this point. And we will continue to have ongoing reason to shield from respiratory viruses for Simeon’s sake (especially before the heart surgery). Yet we are confident that the Lord will continue to show up in surprising ways as he has done so amazingly till now. So continue to pray for our moment-by-moment bread.

On the home front, Gwen, James, and Baby Calvin are very eager for Simeon to come home! Gwen has already reserved the "first hold" of Simeon as soon as we get him out of his car seat.

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Diane Yarrington 6 days ago

In the grand scheme of things, this is all really good news! I will continue to pray for Simeon and all of your family. There are major hurdles to get past but God has held your hand so far and I am confident He will continue to be right by your side as you move forward. He has big plans for Simeon!!

Hannah Fox 6 days ago

Praise God for this news! Praying all goes smoothly for Simeon to come home xx

Anna Taylor 6 days ago

Definitely crying over here! Can’t imagine your relief to be leaving the hospital paired with the new stressors that come with being home. Praying for you all over these next couple weeks! Send photos!

Peter Foxley 6 days ago

Great News!! That's very encouraging, we will continue praying for all of you!

Christy Pearson 6 days ago

What wonderful news! Praying for you all as you develop a new normal routine in your home.

Linda Shelton 6 days ago

Praise, praise, praise….God is good…ALL the time. Have been waiting anxiously for the news. Yes, it will be difficult. But, so much easier to be able to care for Simeon at home instead of back and forth to the hospital. Stay strong!

Marilyn Moore 6 days ago

Oh, my, such a complexity of reality. Simeon has grown, he's stronger, he'll be able to come home...and you and Ben and your family rejoice! And along side that, all the intense medical needs will also come home, and your heads must be spinning as you think about how to manage it all...along with the lively demands of a family of four children! You are strong, you are smart, you have support...and you're prepared to be tired. Know that you are surrounded by love and care....

Sarah Reddy 5 days ago

Praise God for all He has done. Our gracious Lord is so generous!!

Donna Vanderweide 5 days ago

Thank you for sharing this wondeful adventure!! Each turn in the road brings Simeon closer to home! It sounds like the makoings of an adventure book for young parents dealing with similart issues. God os blessing all of us inn watching this journey. Thank you for sharing!! Donna VanderWeide

Corina Y 5 days ago

Praying for you all. So much to rejoice in. So much to consider. Praying that God will continue to uphold and sustain your family And praying for Joy unspeakable throughout the coming days/weeks/ months Corina

Snaque Rollo 4 days ago

Oh, my.....dear Gwen! "Dibs on first holding!" So exciting to have the entire family under one roof! Praise the Lord for Simeon's possible homecoming!! Prayers for all of what you have dealing! Unbelievable! One day at a time. Would love to see how Calvin Is looking at this point as well! God has you and your family firmly in His Hands

Eileen Anderson 2 days ago

God is good and he is always one step ahead of you to guide you through all that comes your way. That little boy looks very good even though he has a lot of bells and whistles hooked up to him. Mommy and daddy are doing such a great job, and even though it does test you with ups and downs. be proud of everything you have done for Simeon and continue to do. Lots of love in that family which is so important. Sending prayers and Love Your Way,. God bless. 😘

Amy Wall 1 day ago

This is amazing news! I will be praying for everyone to stay healthy and for Simeon to be released home as tentatively planned. God clearly has had His hand in your family’s life and continues to intervene. 🥰