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This message is from Uncle George πŸ™

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George and Jackie Cadinha
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Aloha Family,
I’m sending this message in hopes of communicating clearly where Jackie is currently with her condition and what the coming days may look like.
Jackie suffered a cardiac arrest that left her without adequate oxygen and blood flow to her brain for approximately 30 minutes. Unfortunately, those 30 minutes resulted in significant and extensive brain damage.
She remains in the ICU on a ventilator. As of Tuesday at 6:00 a.m., she has been taken off all medications and sedation. Her seizures have stopped, but she remains unresponsive.
Based on what the medical team has shared with us, the extent of Jackie’s brain injury means that, if she were to survive, she would most likely require a ventilator or tracheotomy, a feeding tube, and long-term care in a skilled nursing facility. She would likely be unable to follow simple commands, communicate her needs, or have meaningful mobility in her arms and legs.
I believe we would all agree that Jackie would not want to live that way. As her husband, I know my beloved wife, and I cannot allow her to endure a life that she would not have wanted for herself.
Over these past five days, Jackie has undergone tremendous life-sustaining efforts, treatments, and testing. Despite all of those efforts, she remains unresponsive.
The medical team is giving her until Thursday, the 20th, which will be approximately 72 hours after stopping all medications and allowing them to fully leave her system. They are hoping to see whether she demonstrates any positive neurological responses during that time.
The doctors have been very clear with us that meaningful recovery from a brain injury of this extent is highly unlikely. If that remains the case, I will ultimately have to make decisions regarding the continuation of life-sustaining treatment on Jackie’s behalf.
I want to be clear: I will not put my beloved wife through a life she would not have wanted.
Please understand that Thursday is not a deadline for making that decision. However, a decision will need to be made in the coming days based on Jackie’s condition and the medical team’s guidance.
This brings me to those who have asked about coming to see Jackie.
My request is that you please allow me this time to be with my wife and spend these precious moments with her. I need this time with Jackie, and I hope you can respect and understand that.
When the time comes, we will CELEBRATE HER the way she deserves to be celebratedβ€”with love, with honor, and with gratitude for the beautiful life she shared with all of us.
I love you all, but most importantly, Jackie has always loved you.
Me ke aloha pumehana a hālāwai hou aku.
With warmest love, and until we meet again,
George

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Sandra Townsend 7 days ago

My prayers and thoughts are with you both.Thinking of you everyday and sending hugs and love .β€οΈπŸ™πŸ™xxxx

Melissa Emmert 7 days ago

Heavenly Father, We come before You right now in the mighty, powerful, and matchless name of Jesus Christ. We come boldly before Your throne, believing that You are still the God of miracles, the God who heals, the God who restores, and the God who makes a way when there seems to be no way. Lord, we lift up Auntie Jackie to You. Father, You know every detail of what has happened. You know her body, her mind, her heart, and every single thing that is happening inside her right now. Nothing is hidden from You. What doctors may call unlikely, You are not limited by. What may look impossible to us is not impossible for You. So, Lord, we ask for a miracle. We ask You to reach into Auntie Jackie's body with Your healing hands. Restore what has been damaged. Bring life and healing to every affected part of her body. Restore her brain, her organs, her strength, her consciousness, and every function that needs to be restored. In the name of Jesus, we speak life over Auntie Jackie. Lord, where there is damage, bring restoration. Where there is weakness, bring strength. Where there is uncertainty, bring clarity. Where there is fear, bring peace. Where there is darkness, bring light. Where there seems to be no hope, be the hope. Father, we know that You are sovereign, and we surrender the outcome to Youβ€”but we also refuse to stop believing in Your power. We are asking You to do what only You can do. Give her doctors, nurses, and every person caring for her extraordinary wisdom and discernment. Guide every decision. Let nothing be overlooked. Give them steady hands, clear minds, and insight beyond their own understanding. And Father, we especially lift up George. Wrap Your arms around him right now. Hold him up when he feels like he cannot stand. Give him strength for every moment, wisdom for every decision, and peace that cannot be explained by circumstances. When fear tries to overwhelm him, remind him that You are there. When he doesn't know what to do, guide him. When he doesn't know what to say, give him the words. When he feels exhausted, carry him. When his heart is breaking, comfort him. Lord, surround George with people who will encourage him, pray with him, help him, and remind him that he does not have to carry this alone. And Father, let Your presence fill that hospital room. Let Your peace settle over Auntie Jackie and George like a blanket. Let them feel You there. Let them know, beyond every circumstance and every medical report, that they are held in Your hands. We pray against fear, despair, and hopelessness. We choose faith over fear, hope over despair, and prayer over panic. Jesus, we need You. We ask for healing. We ask for restoration. We ask for strength. We ask for wisdom. We ask for peace. We ask for comfort. And above all, we ask for Your miraculous hand to move. Lord, if there is even the smallest window of possibility, You are the God who can open it wide. We believe You can make a way where there appears to be no way. We place Auntie Jackie in Your hands. We place George in Your hands. We place their family in Your hands. And we declare together: Our God is still a miracle, working God. Jesus is still our healer. Nothing is too difficult for Him. Nothing is beyond His reach. And we will continue to believe. In the mighty, precious, healing, and powerful name of Jesus Christ, Amen. πŸ™β€οΈ

Joseph Zecher 7 days ago

My deepest sympathy George. I am so sorry for both of you and your families. Jackie and I send our love.

Richard bowles 7 days ago

Love you both Aloha no

Mjblefty 7 days ago

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Cindy Nye 7 days ago

Auntie Jackie & Uncle George-Prayers for miracles, guidance, peace and comfort in the days ahead. My heart is breaking for you. From your customer and friend. Cindy & Kevin Nye

Nancy Steers-Crist 7 days ago

Wrapping you both in the Healing White Light of God's Love and Protection! Knowing He will lead us all with Love and Grace! πŸ™β€οΈ

Tilisa 7 days ago

In Winnie the Pooh's words: "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard"😒 Sending Aloha and prayers πŸ™ ❀️ 🌺 to you both aunty Jackie and Uncle George.

carla black 7 days ago

George, I’m praying the Lord surrounds you with His love, gives you strength and peace, and gently carries Jackie home when the time comes. May you all feel His presence and the love of your Κ»ohana surrounding you.

Damaris Cabrera 7 days ago

Lifting you up in prayer uncle George and auntie Jackie. I love you both so much and I know and trust that the Lord is your strength and refuge in this most difficult time πŸ™πŸ©΅

Beverly Camp 7 days ago

Uncle George I feel for you and everything that you are going through. Give our love and hold her tight. I am here for you if you need anything. Love you both, Bev

Lori K 7 days ago

Thank you for thinking of her and how she would want things. You are both such beautiful people. Im so glad that I got the chance to know auntie Jackie and her beautiful light. Love and continued prayers for your family.

Lisa Lockamy 6 days ago

There’s truly is just heartbreaking. I have known Jackie since 1991 and she has brought so much joy and laughter to so many people. The world will be a bit darker without her in it. Prayers to your family through this difficult time. My heart truly goes out.

Vicki DeVol 6 days ago

Uncle, I am so sorry this happened. I was blessed to have known you even a short while and felt the abundant aloha that you shared with us all. My prayers are surrounding you in these days. Love and aloha from Salem.

Debbie Anderson 6 days ago

I’m so sorry this is happening to you.it breaks my heart, but I will continue to pray cause GOD is bigger . Love you both

Hannah Mamea 6 days ago

Uncle George, ua pā ka naΚ»au reading this. I am praying deeply for you, Aunty Jackie, and your entire Κ»ohana. Getting to know Aunty Jackie and having the privilege of being alongside herβ€”through performance, our Hawaiian conversations, our conversations about God and faith, talking story, and just sharing lifeβ€”has meant so much to me. One thing that has really touched me is seeing more of the quiet selflessness she carries. She has done so much for others without needing recognition, and that says so much about her heart. Please know that we are here supporting you, loving you, and covering both you and Aunty Jackie in prayer. What gives me so much peace is knowing that Aunty Jackie claims Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior. No matter what lies ahead, I know her life is held securely in His hands, and I am praying for His presence, strength, comfort, and peace to surround you both through every moment. β€œFear thou not; for I am with thee… I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee.” β€” Isaiah 41:10 Me ke aloha nui. β€οΈπŸ™πŸ½

Kristie McFadden 6 days ago

My heart aches hearing this news. I was her hairstylist at Ulta for many years. She was the kindest & sweetest Aunty! Always so positive and filled with gratitude . Every time she sat in my chair, she made my heart fill with joy and always put a smile my face as she told me stories of her beautiful life. She always gave me great advice; to always love yourself and deeply appreciate those you love and cherish. My heart goes out to her Ohana! 🌺 She will be deeply missed. Mahalo!

Lisa Hendrick 6 days ago

Bless you both and may God uplift you in whatever decision you make. We are keeping you all in prayer.

Gina Baker 6 days ago

My prayers are with you and Jackie. May our Lord and savior watch over you both, guide you and bring you peace during this heartbreaking time.

Long Tran 5 days ago

Long and I send our love and prayers to you both ❀️❀️

Sherrie Barker 4 days ago

We're holding you both in our hearts at this very difficult time just as we do in the joy of knowing you both. You'll know the right path when it's time. Much love and aloha.

Ingrid Lott 4 days ago

Praying for strength and comfort from God. May He guide you through this journey.