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Round 4, surgery update, and complications

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Allison’s Cancer Journey
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This update is one I’ve struggled to write. I don’t want to write it, because I don’t want any of this to be real. But here we are, and we have to face it. 
 
First off, Allison’s last round of chemo went relatively well. Her nausea was much better controlled both in the hospital and once we came home. However, it severely suppressed her immune system, and we were admitted again last night after she developed a neutropenic fever of 102.4. 
 
The team measures immune function using a calculation called the ANC (absolute neutrophil count). In a healthy child, that number should be above 1,500. In a healthy adult, it typically ranges from 2,500–6,000. When we arrived at the hospital last night, Allison’s ANC was zero. This morning it has improved to 20, which is a good sign but her fever is still off and on. We need to be fever free for at least 24 hours before going home. 
 
Her platelets are very low, so she received a transfusion this morning. Her hemoglobin is also just one point above transfusion level, so we are monitoring that closely. All of this is a direct result of chemotherapy suppressing healthy blood cell production. On top of that, the mouth and throat sores have returned with a vengeance, so she is feeling pretty miserable overall. Once her immune system recovers, the mouth sores usually get better pretty fast. We are starting a continuous pain pump and IV nutrition since she has not been able to eat for several days. She has to have pain controlled enough that she can eat and drink adequately before she can go home. We are hopeful that fluids, antibiotics, and supportive care here will help her move past this hurdle quickly. She really wants to be home in time to celebrate Valentine’s Day! 
 
It also seems like everyone at home is sick right now. This season has not been gentle on our family, and we would deeply appreciate prayers for health for all of us. 
 
Last week we met with the surgeon to discuss options. Because the portion of Allison’s tibia containing the tumor must be removed, along with part of the fibula and some surrounding tendons, we were presented with three options. 
 
The first option is replacing the removed bone and tendons with donor bone/tissue. This preserves her foot, but the new bone is fragile, since it’s not actually living, and the joint must be fused, which significantly limits mobility. The second option uses metal to replace the bone. While the joint is not fused, it still does not function normally, mobility remains limited, and the joint can be unstable. In both cases, high-impact activities like running, snowboarding, or any kind of sports would be strongly discouraged, and healing can be prolonged and complicated during chemotherapy. 
 
The third option is a below-the-knee amputation. This means losing her foot and ankle, but it would allow her the greatest long-term mobility since there is such a variety in modern prosthetics designed for all different kinds of activities. For this option, the limb is removed about 18cm down from the knee so that she would still have good mobility in her knee but she would also have plenty of options for prosthesis. The doctor said the downside is that she only has one foot so if she, for example, wakes up at night and needs to use the restroom, she can’t just walk there. And while she is young it’s easier to get around, but as you get older hopping or moving around on one foot becomes more difficult. 
 
The surgeon told Allison she didn’t have to decide right away. However, without hesitation, she chose option three. She does not want to live with limitations on her activity. While I am grateful for her clarity and courage, it is still heartbreaking to stand at this precipice with her. Surgery is scheduled for March 30. She likely will not be able to walk for about four months afterwards, while swelling decreases and a custom prosthetic is made and fitted. 
 
I never imagined analyzing our home for wheelchair compatibility or figuring out the best way to navigate a one-inch shower lip with one leg. Thinking about how someone can drive with your left foot, or how to load a wheelchair with one hand into the car while balancing on one foot. There is so much to consider. But Allison continues to face each hurdle with remarkable strength and grace. 
 
One of the greatest challenges isn’t just the cancer, the chemotherapy, or even the upcoming surgery, it’s the emotional weight of it all. Allison has been struggling emotionally, and we are praying specifically for JOY. That she would feel peace. That she would experience genuine moments of happiness each day. That she would feel lifted up enough to endure what’s in front of her. 
 
Please also pray for her sister, Maliya. Alli’s little brothers don’t fully understand what is happening, but Maliya feels the full weight of it all, while also carrying the demands of very rigorous school courses and extracurricular demands. Please pray with us that she would have peace, assurance that her sister will be okay, and the courage to walk alongside Allison through this. And please pray for us as parents, that we would have patience, wisdom, steadfastness, and courage to guide Allison through this season and whatever lies beyond it. 💕 
 

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Glenda Bell

Praying for her healing and for all of you as you travel this journey with her!!
  • 3 months ago

Paige Noss

Such difficult things to consider. Praying for you all. May I encourage you to follow a dear KC mom’s amputation story. Her name is Brie Morgan Bauer. She’s on FB as Brie Morgan and Insta as BeauandBrie. Long story short, she is a mom of 3 young boys and became a quadruple amputee due to contracting toxic shock late in her last pregnancy. She is truly amazing. She gives true daily insight into her struggles and conquests. Prosthetics have come SO far! May God’s peace and comfort cover you all. Allison sounds like she’s got the right mindset to face this. Such a very brave young woman. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
  • 3 months ago

Sarah Turner

My heart breaks for you. 💔😢 But I also know that God is close to the broken hearted. Praying with you. Praying for the gravity of everything, for strength when you have none, for joy in the Lord, and for good health. ❤️
  • 3 months ago

Tricia Becker

Thinking about you all and praying for you all daily. We all really appreciate your updates although so hard to take in. I wish I could do something to help. If you think of anything please, let me know. ♥️
  • 3 months ago

Heather Sewczak

I'm sending so many prayers for you all. I can only imagine how difficult it is on everyone and my heart breaks at the thought of all of that pain and heaviness. Hugs from afar...
  • 3 months ago

Lucy Peterson

Trista, this doesn’t just break my heart, but completely shatters it. No parent and child should have to go on this journey and I’m so sorry you are on it. These are horrible times with even worse decisions. I’m praying for you, and of course Allison, and Maliya too. I wish I could give you a hug or anything helpful but know I am praying for your family. Stay strong sweet lady! Big hugs
  • 3 months ago

Jonna Wynkoop

Dear Trista and family, I am deeply saddened that Allison’s journey is facing hurdles. I admire her courage so much. I can only imagine being faced with such life altering decisions and how heavily it weighs on her! I pray that her blood counts can even out so that she is able to have moments of joy each day. Bless all of you! You’ve been through so much and handle it all with such grace. I’m holding all of you close to my heart. If I can ever be of help, I’m local and available. It would be an honor to help out in any way.
  • 3 months ago

Jonna Wynkoop

Dear Trista and family, I am deeply saddened that Allison’s journey is facing hurdles. I admire her courage so much. I can only imagine being faced with such life altering decisions and how heavily it weighs on her! I pray that her blood counts can even out so that she is able to have moments of joy each day. Bless all of you! You’ve been through so much and handle it all with such grace. I’m holding all of you close to my heart. If I can ever be of help, I’m local and available. It would be an honor to help out in any way.
  • 3 months ago

Cindy Kurthy

My heart is just broken for you all. I could hardly read your update through my tears. My prayers will continue with even more vengeance.🙏🏻. I am just so sorry your sweet family is going through this. What a brave warrior Allie is!
  • 3 months ago

Michele Roseborough

Aww Trista, I am sorry that you and your family have had to continue going through so many challenges. Praying for healing and peace.
  • 3 months ago

caeden sandifer

i’m praying for you guys!
  • 3 months ago

Tynetta

My soul truly hurts for you and it is heartbreaking to learn of all of this. I hate that your family is going through something so difficult. But I know Alli will have a great testimony. I know it’s not all in vain. Tears are flowing but so are my prayers for Allison, your family and all who love her! 🙏💕💛 Love you all! Heavenly Father, I come before You with a heavy heart, bringing Allison and her entire family into Your loving hands. Lord, You see every tear, every fear, every sleepless night, and every moment of pain that words cannot express. Nothing about this situation is hidden from You. Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask for Your healing power to flow through Allison’s body… mind, body, and soul. Strengthen her immune system, raise her blood counts, calm her fever, and ease the pain from the sores and treatments. Let her body respond quickly and completely to every medication, every intervention, every act of care. Restore what chemotherapy has taken and protect her from any further infection or complications. Lord, You are the Great Physician. Guide every doctor, nurse, and specialist with supernatural wisdom. Prepare the way for her surgery, steady every hand involved, and let the outcome be better than expected. Surround her with Your peace as she faces surgery, amputation, and let the prosthetic process be smooth, timely, and successful. Let her laugh, and live fully again. Father, guard Allison’s heart and mind. Replace fear, grief, and exhaustion with deep, unexplainable peace!!! Fill her with JOY, real joy that breaks through even in the middle of suffering. Give her moments of light, laughter, and hope each day. Remind her that she is not alone, not forgotten, and not defeated!!! We love her but you you’ve her more! Lord, strengthen Maliya. Ease the weight she is carrying. Give her comfort, focus for school, emotional resilience, and the assurance that her sister will be okay. Protect her heart from anxiety and the feelings of being overwhelm. Cover the entire family with Your presence. Bring healing to everyone in the home who is sick. Renew her parents’ strength, patience, wisdom, and courage. When they feel weak, be their strength. When they feel lost, be their guide. When they feel overwhelmed, be their peace. Father, surround this family with, community, a shield of protection, love, and support. Send helpers, encouragement, and provision in every form they need, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and financially, Lord! Most of all, Lord, let Your presence be unmistakable in this valley. Turn this season of suffering into a testimony of Your faithfulness. Carry them when they cannot walk. Hold them when they feel like falling apart. Bottle up every tear! We declare life, healing, peace, and hope, strength, direction, comfort, security and stability, over Allison and her family! In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen
  • 3 months ago

Clark Susan

Such a hard decision at such a young age. I pray that you get stronger and I’m thinking of you and your whole family. 🙏
  • 3 months ago

Alyssa Birdno

My heart breaks for you all. I can't imagine how you must be feeling as a mother but I know you love your kids wholeheartedly. I am praying that she can find Joy in small things each day and that she gets some relief from the sores soon. I will also be praying she feels God surrounding her. She is so brave and strong to be making those hard decisions at this point in her life.
  • 3 months ago